Sleeping with the Asian Fun Up Artist
People say to us “Why does the ABCs Of Attraction have such a clean reputation, and what makes your students so successful?”
People always want the clean-cut answer. In fact, it has very little to do with the words we teach or the stories we tell, it has to do with our students and the philosophy with which we guide them.
I have always believed that there are two types of companies in the Pick Up industry:
- Company A teaches men positive ways to become attractive to women and give them the boost of confidence and social skill necessary to achieve true social enlightenment.
- Company B teaches men to use gimmicky lines and scripts to, essentially, trick girls into thinking you’re interesting.
Ask yourself this: Have you ever found yourself running routines that you aren’t interested in or asking questions you’ve read in books about things you could care less about and then maybe, MAYBE getting a makeout that ends up feeling fake or a bit futile? If so, it means you’re on the “Giving a man a fish” end of the Pick Up business and that you’re not actually bettering yourself as a person.
You’ve seen the pick-up artist that just embodies confidence. The guys that, even though there are programs that teach you never to say, “Excuse me”, can actually spill a coffee on a girl and still get her number. There are even guys that can do EVERYTHING “wrong” (according to the community), but can still be attractive to women. This is the type of method we teach.
Holistic game dictates that if you better yourself as a person (create an interesting life, take part in fun activities, hang out with cool people), the quality of the people around you will better itself. The guys will become more fun and easy-going and the women will become more confident and more attractive. This is type of life that all enlightened men seek, and we make our living teaching those skills.
In our programs, we help guys develop these conversational skill and we teach them a way to practice becoming more confident while using them. Sure, we give guys lines, but our lines aren’t designed to “Make her melt instantly so she’ll be ready for your throbbing stanchion in minutes“, they’re designed to make her life better.
By making her life better, she will be more attracted to you. This, ironically, is the way to better your life and keep her coming back for more. Fortunately for us, the companies that build their reputations on ‘seducing her with a single line’ and ‘pheromone packages designed to get the girl without a word’ are a thing of the past. People are wising up to the revolution of self-improvement and these companies are on their way out.
Some of them are already gone- the harsh economic realities have weeded out the charlatans, pretenders, and imitators with a ruthless Darwinian razor- and I consider that a victory!
I don’t like telling people I’m in the “Seduction” business because, just by using that word seduction, it implies that we deceive women. I don’t even really like telling people I’m a “Pick Up Artist” because it makes them think my students and I are just out to get laid. Yeah, I love sex, but which of you out there doesn’t want the perfect woman on their arm for the rest of their life? I know I do.
A very good friend of ours in Hollywood that promotes several major clubs once took me aside and said, “You and your friends are welcome to any club I am ever involved with because I sincerely believe there are two types of people in this world: Fun takers and fun makers. You are a fun maker.” (Read here about the B-Phase: Be in the Moment, Banter & Buying Temperature)
Though, I am proud of the idea of being a world-recognized seduction expert, I consider myself more of a Fun Up Artist, than a Pick Up Artist. (Read more about HOW to become quit being a pick up artist and start being a FUN UP ARTIST)
Both myself and my instructors are in the business of making life fun for everyone.
- We increase everyone’s quality of life and we give value, relentlessly.
- We make people enjoy their lives so much that they want to get as close to us as possible.
- People want to reap these rewards as often as possible.
- In the case of beautiful women, that happens to end in an orgasm.
How can I complain?
If you’re looking for the one sentence that will bend her over and drop her panties, you won’t find it in the ABCs. I’ll be honest with you; you won’t find it anywhere because it doesn’t exist. But if you’re looking for a way to become a better person to such a degree that women will crawl over themselves just to be near you, we can help you with that right away.
